I take a good look around in the congregation I attend, with quite a numerous attendance, and I can see that at least 1/2 the people wouldn't be there if not for the social atmosphere and the fact that the religion is a family affair of sorts; specially the young people. They're just so out of it and you could read it in their faces that there's some other place where they'd rather be.
I can certainly say that I used to be one of those "trapped-in" people, but as I've matured, grown older, my faith in this religion has increased. Now I find myself happily adjusted, and understand clearly, although not always agree, the meaning and purpose. My rebel years are long gone!
DY